Though your partner is the one who’s pregnant, you can play a major role in her well-being. Often, guys are accused of “checking out” when they learn their partner is unexpectedly pregnant.
Stepping up and making responsible, mature choices shows that you’ll be by her side.
Learning your partner is pregnant can throw you for a loop. You may ask yourself these questions:
- How could this have happened? I thought we were careful!
- I’m not sure if I’m ready to be a father. Where can I find more information?
- What’s my role in this process?
This is your partner’s pregnancy and her decision. Still, you can have a more significant impact than you think.
It’s never okay to pressure someone into choosing a specific pregnancy option, including abortion. However, your partner may welcome your feedback and want you to participate in the decision-making process.
Moving Forward
An unexpected pregnancy can be challenging, but you have more resources than you may realize. Though you may feel overwhelmed and want to “get out” of this situation, being present for your partner shows that you’re in this together and care about her feelings.
Having honest, clear conversations about pregnancy options also shows that you’re committed to learning about your available choices. And you don’t have to do that alone—we provide free and confidential options consultations.
You’ll also need more information on your partner’s pregnancy to better understand her options. She can confirm key details with an ultrasound at our clinic, which will give you both the information you need to move forward.
Talking through options with your partner and listening to her concerns speaks volumes about your character. Though this can be a stressful situation, with the right help, you’ll get through this.
Do you have other questions about pregnancy or parenthood? Our male advocates are here to help. There’s no shame in asking questions and getting the information you need.
Contact us today to learn about our support services for men. You aren’t alone.